The old adage of “you can’t win them all” rings true in many aspects of life, but it has a particular resonance when it comes to playing someone’s feelings. It is a classic scenario: one person is attempting to win a game by manipulating their opponent’s emotions, while the other is being forced to choose between winning the game and preserving the relationship. Unfortunately, the consequences of playing someone’s feelings are often dire: if one attempts to win the game at the expense of the other person’s feelings, they may win the game, but they will certainly lose that person forever.
In some cases, the other person may not even be aware of what has happened. After all, when one is playing someone’s emotions, they are not necessarily trying to be malicious or hurtful; they may simply be trying to gain an advantage. Even if the other person is aware that they are being manipulated, they may choose not to confront the issue or take any action, as they may be afraid of the repercussions. It is only when the other person realizes that they have been played that they may feel deeply hurt and betrayed, and this can lead to a lasting estrangement between the two.
The consequences of playing someone’s feelings can also be felt by the person doing the manipulating. Even though they may win the game, they will be left with a profound sense of guilt and regret at the cost of their actions. It can be difficult for them to look back and recognize the harm they have caused, and this can lead to a great deal of emotional turmoil and distress. The knowledge that they have hurt someone they care about and destroyed a relationship can stay with them long after the game has ended.
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