YOUR FRIENDS ARE NOT ALWAYS YOUR REAL FRIENDS

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Fake friends are everywhere, and they can come in many different forms. It's easy to be deceived by someone who appears to be a friend but is actually out to take advantage of you. Fake friends make you feel important, like they genuinely care about you and want to help. However, they are ultimately just collecting information about you in order to use it against you when it is no longer beneficial for them to keep up the illusion of friendship.

One type of fake friend is the "yes-man." These people always agree with everything you say and never offer any constructive criticism. They may seem like the perfect friend, reinforcing your ideas and making you feel validated. However, when it comes to making real progress, the “yes-man” is not helpful. They have no interest in actually helping you, and instead are just trying to stay on your good side.

Another type of fake friend is the "user." This person acts like your friend but only when it is beneficial to them. They will use you to get what they want and then disappear when they are done. They may ask you for favors or money, and once they have taken what they need, they will not be there for you when you need help.

It can be difficult to tell fake friends apart from true ones. One way to tell is to pay attention to how much effort they put into the relationship. A real friend will put in the effort to stay in touch and make time for you. Fake friends will be too busy when you need them, and will only make time for you when it is convenient for them. 

Finally, it is important to be aware of the signs of fake friends in order to protect yourself. Pay attention to how they act around other people, and if they are overly friendly. Look out for any manipulative behavior, such as using guilt to get what they want. It can also be helpful to talk to other people and ask them for their opinion. If they think that someone is not a genuine friend, it's best to be wary.

Overall, it is important to be aware of the presence of fake friends in our lives. They can appear to be friendly and helpful, but their true intentions are often to use and manipulate us. By understanding the signs of a fake friend, we can protect ourselves and be aware of who to trust.